In posting this, I hurt a family member that I really care about. So I have removed it and will try to be more careful in the future. I really did not intend to hurt this person, and I will be crawling on my knees for forgiveness for a LONG, LONG time on this one.
Please forgive me. I know that this is NOT widely read, and the family member does not know this, I am sure. Mea culpa.